Comments on: Chris Brown Lets it Rain on Ms. Umbrella Rihanna. Written by Kendall Sawyer http://kleverkathy.com/2009/02/10/chris-brown-lets-it-rain-on-ms-umbrella-rihanna-written-by-kendall-sawyer/ I have one and you have one...an opinion! Let's talk! Wed, 09 May 2012 09:45:41 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: half and half (Mary) http://kleverkathy.com/2009/02/10/chris-brown-lets-it-rain-on-ms-umbrella-rihanna-written-by-kendall-sawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-156 half and half (Mary) Wed, 04 Mar 2009 01:58:33 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=11#comment-156 Know you? I think not. Paranoia the norm here?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('156','half and half (Mary)'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('156','half and half (Mary)','Know you? I think not. Paranoia the norm here?'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Know you? I think not. Paranoia the norm here?
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]]> By: Kathy http://kleverkathy.com/2009/02/10/chris-brown-lets-it-rain-on-ms-umbrella-rihanna-written-by-kendall-sawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-153 Kathy Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:03:23 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=11#comment-153 It sounds like you are someone who knows me and is disguised as someone else. No prob.

I have never said I would stay with my husband nor did I say I wouldn’t. Those are not the points I am making but that is all you seem to want to know. Focus on some of the other points I have made. Abuse is not a matter of opinion, abuse is abuse. It is just a matter of opinion when we as individuals gauge the severity on what we are willing to put up with.

There are some women who would leave if a man shoved her, even if she shoved him too. There are some that would leave for verbal, emotional and mental abuse. There are some that would leave for manipulation. But there are some that stay for it all! There are some that forgive it all! Even if initially they call the police, he is arrested, etc. They will forgive and go back. It is not my relationship and I don’t know everything that has transpired. It is all up to what the individual decides. It may even be a bad or wrong decision, but it is theirs.

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]]> By: Half and half http://kleverkathy.com/2009/02/10/chris-brown-lets-it-rain-on-ms-umbrella-rihanna-written-by-kendall-sawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-152 Half and half Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:36:19 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=11#comment-152 I had 4 brothers so I got away with stuff when I was young. I can recall slapping a few boys and then getting into a fight only to have my brothers come running and beat the poor boy up. I had to get saved Kathy and mature in the Lord. John and I had to deal with the issue and we did. The fact that he didn't hit me shows that he was already some what mature. At the time I was kinda spooled and sassy. I would never do that now, nor would he. Had he beat me I would not be married to him today. Can you say the same thing? It sounds like you would stay with your husband.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('152','Half and half'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('152','Half and half','I had 4 brothers so I got away with stuff when I was young. I can recall slapping a few boys and then getting into a fight only to have my brothers come running and beat the poor boy up. I had to get saved Kathy and mature in the Lord. \r\n\r\nJohn and I had to deal with the issue and we did. The fact that he didn\'t hit me shows that he was already some what mature. At the time I was kinda spooled and sassy. I would never do that now, nor would he. Had he beat me I would not be married to him today. Can you say the same thing? It sounds like you would stay with your husband.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I had 4 brothers so I got away with stuff when I was young. I can recall slapping a few boys and then getting into a fight only to have my brothers come running and beat the poor boy up. I had to get saved Kathy and mature in the Lord.

John and I had to deal with the issue and we did. The fact that he didn’t hit me shows that he was already some what mature. At the time I was kinda spooled and sassy. I would never do that now, nor would he. Had he beat me I would not be married to him today. Can you say the same thing? It sounds like you would stay with your husband.

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]]> By: Kathy http://kleverkathy.com/2009/02/10/chris-brown-lets-it-rain-on-ms-umbrella-rihanna-written-by-kendall-sawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-151 Kathy Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:23:24 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=11#comment-151 I didn't miss that, did you miss me saying that was abuse? Oh wait, let me get this straight, if you both do it to each other at the same time, it cancels out his abuse because you abused him too? So you are both abusers! Ok check this out, I heard reports that say Rihanna fought Chris first!, while he was driving. So...help me here. Is his abuse worse because he is a man and stronger and more capable of doing more harm and obviously did do more harm? This is the kind of slanted stuff that has society screwed up! Wrong is wrong is wrong! Abuse is abuse is abuse but maybe, just maybe Chris and Rihanna talked about it and decided not to go dwon that road again. (I even left in your typo!)<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('151','Kathy'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('151','Kathy','I didn\'t miss that, did you miss me saying that was abuse? Oh wait, let me get this straight, if you both do it to each other at the same time, it cancels out his abuse because you abused him too? So you are both abusers! Ok check this out, I heard reports that say Rihanna fought Chris first!, while he was driving. So...help me here. Is his abuse worse because he is a man and stronger and more capable of doing more harm and obviously did do more harm? This is the kind of slanted stuff that has society screwed up! Wrong is wrong is wrong! Abuse is abuse is abuse but maybe, just maybe Chris and Rihanna talked about it and decided not to go dwon that road again. (I even left in your typo!)'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I didn’t miss that, did you miss me saying that was abuse? Oh wait, let me get this straight, if you both do it to each other at the same time, it cancels out his abuse because you abused him too? So you are both abusers! Ok check this out, I heard reports that say Rihanna fought Chris first!, while he was driving. So…help me here. Is his abuse worse because he is a man and stronger and more capable of doing more harm and obviously did do more harm? This is the kind of slanted stuff that has society screwed up! Wrong is wrong is wrong! Abuse is abuse is abuse but maybe, just maybe Chris and Rihanna talked about it and decided not to go dwon that road again. (I even left in your typo!)
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]]> By: Half and half http://kleverkathy.com/2009/02/10/chris-brown-lets-it-rain-on-ms-umbrella-rihanna-written-by-kendall-sawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-150 Half and half Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:46:11 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=11#comment-150 Did you miss this? "We had a shoving match long ago. We talked about it and decided not to go dwon that road again." Ok maybe I wasn't very clear. We both were pushing. I pushed him first. He pushed back. I wen to slap him and he grabbed my wrist and shoved me to the couch. I got up. He said don't do what you're about to do. I left the house and came back. We talked and that was the end of any physical violence. We both decided to never go there again. That was almost 20 years ago.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('150','Half and half'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('150','Half and half','Did you miss this? \"We had a shoving match long ago. We talked about it and decided not to go dwon that road again.\"\r\n\r\nOk maybe I wasn\'t very clear. We both were pushing. I pushed him first. He pushed back. I wen to slap him and he grabbed my wrist and shoved me to the couch. I got up. He said don\'t do what you\'re about to do. I left the house and came back. We talked and that was the end of any physical violence. We both decided to never go there again. That was almost 20 years ago.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Did you miss this? “We had a shoving match long ago. We talked about it and decided not to go dwon that road again.”

Ok maybe I wasn’t very clear. We both were pushing. I pushed him first. He pushed back. I wen to slap him and he grabbed my wrist and shoved me to the couch. I got up. He said don’t do what you’re about to do. I left the house and came back. We talked and that was the end of any physical violence. We both decided to never go there again. That was almost 20 years ago.

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