Comments on: Please Help Me Through My Divorce… http://kleverkathy.com/2009/08/25/please-help-me-through-my-divorce/ I have one and you have one...an opinion! Let's talk! Wed, 09 May 2012 09:45:41 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Charles Davis Jr http://kleverkathy.com/2009/08/25/please-help-me-through-my-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-3663 Charles Davis Jr Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:51:39 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1039#comment-3663 Thanks for everyone's advice. I'm going to see how it goes from here. I do feel better and I atribute some of it to all of you's kindness and concern. See you down the rodad ....maybe<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3663','Charles Davis Jr'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3663','Charles Davis Jr','Thanks for everyone\'s advice. I\'m going to see how it goes from here. I do feel better and I atribute some of it to all of you\'s kindness and concern. See you down the rodad ....maybe'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Thanks for everyone’s advice. I’m going to see how it goes from here. I do feel better and I atribute some of it to all of you’s kindness and concern. See you down the rodad ….maybe
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]]> By: Charles Davis Jr http://kleverkathy.com/2009/08/25/please-help-me-through-my-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-3644 Charles Davis Jr Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:03:33 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1039#comment-3644 I've also given it some thought. I'm better today as I got lucky last night. I was in Krogers just staring at the ceral like for 20 minutes, lost in thought. This lady said that she had gone past me 3 times and I was still standing there. She asked if I was ok. I told her I had a lot on my mind. She said that she had a few ago stood lost in a dress store like that. Found out that she was recently divorced. She told me to come over to the Starbucks and have coffee. It was funny hold time passed. I think I got to the store around 9ish and I left about 12;30 headed with her to some bar. We ended up totally drunk and got a cab. I don't really remember much but I woke in her arms this morning feeling awfully damn good. I mean I rememer some of it..(laughing) My head is still killing me... Hey I remember we were at the VFW. I said all that to say that I sure have a differnt attitude today. I'm not mad any longer, but I am not helping the ex. I just feel better, even with this massive hang over. Maybe the answer to getting over someone is to go find someone else.... I think this is why divorced people are in bars, picking up dates... Deborah have you considered this?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3644','Charles Davis Jr'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3644','Charles Davis Jr','I\'ve also given it some thought. I\'m better today as I got lucky last night. I was in Krogers just staring at the ceral like for 20 minutes, lost in thought. This lady said that she had gone past me 3 times and I was still standing there. She asked if I was ok. I told her I had a lot on my mind. She said that she had a few ago stood lost in a dress store like that. Found out that she was recently divorced. She told me to come over to the Starbucks and have coffee. It was funny hold time passed. I think I got to the store around 9ish and I left about 12;30 headed with her to some bar. We ended up totally drunk and got a cab. I don\'t really remember much but I woke in her arms this morning feeling awfully damn good. I mean I rememer some of it..(laughing)\r\nMy head is still killing me... Hey I remember we were at the VFW.\r\n\r\nI said all that to say that I sure have a differnt attitude today. I\'m not mad any longer, but I am not helping the ex. I just feel better, even with this massive hang over.\r\n\r\nMaybe the answer to getting over someone is to go find someone else.... I think this is why divorced people are in bars, picking up dates...\r\n\r\nDeborah have you considered this?'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I’ve also given it some thought. I’m better today as I got lucky last night. I was in Krogers just staring at the ceral like for 20 minutes, lost in thought. This lady said that she had gone past me 3 times and I was still standing there. She asked if I was ok. I told her I had a lot on my mind. She said that she had a few ago stood lost in a dress store like that. Found out that she was recently divorced. She told me to come over to the Starbucks and have coffee. It was funny hold time passed. I think I got to the store around 9ish and I left about 12;30 headed with her to some bar. We ended up totally drunk and got a cab. I don’t really remember much but I woke in her arms this morning feeling awfully damn good. I mean I rememer some of it..(laughing)
My head is still killing me… Hey I remember we were at the VFW.

I said all that to say that I sure have a differnt attitude today. I’m not mad any longer, but I am not helping the ex. I just feel better, even with this massive hang over.

Maybe the answer to getting over someone is to go find someone else…. I think this is why divorced people are in bars, picking up dates…

Deborah have you considered this?

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]]> By: Kathy http://kleverkathy.com/2009/08/25/please-help-me-through-my-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-3639 Kathy Tue, 15 Sep 2009 13:09:11 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1039#comment-3639 Charles I am on my way to the doctor but I will think about what you have said and respond when I get back.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3639','Kathy'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3639','Kathy','Charles I am on my way to the doctor but I will think about what you have said and respond when I get back.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Charles I am on my way to the doctor but I will think about what you have said and respond when I get back.
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]]> By: Charles Davis Jr http://kleverkathy.com/2009/08/25/please-help-me-through-my-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-3628 Charles Davis Jr Mon, 14 Sep 2009 21:20:58 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1039#comment-3628 I did want to say that I don't understand all this God stuff. It's a totally different way of looking at things. From what I've read it seems like many of the ppeole who have posted on this subject have or have had divorce issues. You all seem so docile about it. Where's the anger? I feel like cussing, and I did a time or two. Do you all ever feel like that or does God make you so that you don't want to do so?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3628','Charles Davis Jr'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3628','Charles Davis Jr','I did want to say that I don\'t understand all this God stuff. It\'s a totally different way of looking at things. From what I\'ve read it seems like many of the ppeole who have posted on this subject have or have had divorce issues. You all seem so docile about it. Where\'s the anger? I feel like cussing, and I did a time or two. Do you all ever feel like that or does God make you so that you don\'t want to do so?'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I did want to say that I don’t understand all this God stuff. It’s a totally different way of looking at things. From what I’ve read it seems like many of the ppeole who have posted on this subject have or have had divorce issues. You all seem so docile about it. Where’s the anger? I feel like cussing, and I did a time or two. Do you all ever feel like that or does God make you so that you don’t want to do so?
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]]> By: Charles Davis Jr http://kleverkathy.com/2009/08/25/please-help-me-through-my-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-3627 Charles Davis Jr Mon, 14 Sep 2009 21:16:31 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1039#comment-3627 We are divorced. They took her car last week and the house probably in the next month. Her b/f and g/f moved out when they found out that the payment was $1685/mo. She makes $60,000 but has bills on top of bills and now very bad credit. I made her refinance the house and car so my credit is good. Now you can see why she wants back. No way Hosea. She trying to get me every way possible, like leaving nasty messages and making all kinds of noise, but you know when it gets to the point that you hate someone you don't even get sexually arroused. At least not for her... Funny thing happened this morning. I was in the shower... I think I have one of my problems solved. I just left therapy and I feel better or that as well. I don't want to kill her naymore, but I would enjoy watching her die....slowly. If you and Angela have been through what I'm going through and have had the same emotions I'm having then your two are very well capable of a lot of sharing. I think I need to just have sex, don't get or allow attachments.... Thanks for your good advice, tou too Angela. I appreciate it and I think just osunding off has helped as well also....<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3627','Charles Davis Jr'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3627','Charles Davis Jr','We are divorced. They took her car last week and the house probably in the next month. Her b\/f and g\/f moved out when they found out that the payment was $1685\/mo. She makes $60,000 but has bills on top of bills and now very bad credit. I made her refinance the house and car so my credit is good. Now you can see why she wants back. No way Hosea. She trying to get me every way possible, like leaving nasty messages and making all kinds of noise, but you know when it gets to the point that you hate someone you don\'t even get sexually arroused.\r\nAt least not for her...\r\n\r\nFunny thing happened this morning. I was in the shower... I think I have one of my problems solved. I just left therapy and I feel better or that as well. I don\'t want to kill her naymore, but I would enjoy watching her die....slowly.\r\n\r\nIf you and Angela have been through what I\'m going through and have had the same emotions I\'m having then your two are very well capable of a lot of sharing. I think I need to just have sex, don\'t get or allow attachments.... \r\n\r\nThanks for your good advice, tou too Angela. I appreciate it and I think just osunding off has helped as well also....'); return false;">Quote</a></div> We are divorced. They took her car last week and the house probably in the next month. Her b/f and g/f moved out when they found out that the payment was $1685/mo. She makes $60,000 but has bills on top of bills and now very bad credit. I made her refinance the house and car so my credit is good. Now you can see why she wants back. No way Hosea. She trying to get me every way possible, like leaving nasty messages and making all kinds of noise, but you know when it gets to the point that you hate someone you don’t even get sexually arroused.
At least not for her…

Funny thing happened this morning. I was in the shower… I think I have one of my problems solved. I just left therapy and I feel better or that as well. I don’t want to kill her naymore, but I would enjoy watching her die….slowly.

If you and Angela have been through what I’m going through and have had the same emotions I’m having then your two are very well capable of a lot of sharing. I think I need to just have sex, don’t get or allow attachments….

Thanks for your good advice, tou too Angela. I appreciate it and I think just osunding off has helped as well also….

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