Comments on: If You Need Anything, Day Or Night, Just Let Me Know. http://kleverkathy.com/2009/09/10/if-you-need-anything-day-or-night-just-let-me-know/ I have one and you have one...an opinion! Let's talk! Wed, 04 Jan 2012 20:36:33 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Kathy http://kleverkathy.com/2009/09/10/if-you-need-anything-day-or-night-just-let-me-know/comment-page-1/#comment-3764 Kathy Tue, 22 Sep 2009 11:40:26 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1068#comment-3764 You are one in a million!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3764','Kathy'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3764','Kathy','You are one in a million!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> You are one in a million!
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]]> By: Karol Ann http://kleverkathy.com/2009/09/10/if-you-need-anything-day-or-night-just-let-me-know/comment-page-1/#comment-3735 Karol Ann Sun, 20 Sep 2009 20:13:23 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1068#comment-3735 I loved you all comments but I believe just like "it takes a village to raise a child" I believe those same villagers have to be there to help one another. Kathy, I feel you on lowered expectations..BUT, if we lower them all how will people be held accountable for behavior they are SUPPOSE to be exhibiting?? I have a story. I had a saved coworker and we both got different jobs but kept in touch occasionally! Her father died tragically, he's in the tree business and a tree fell on him. As soon as I found out I called and made offer..."Regina, whatever you need"..but I knew some things so I cooked and took food and later she called and said, "I need you to come stay with the girls and I need to get away I'm having a bad day" I went immediately...she has 4 FOUR kids but that's what she needed. We have to be that committee of 1, keep our word, and do what our Mother's taught us..everybody wasn't taught well. Our reward is in heaven!!!!!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3735','Karol Ann'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3735','Karol Ann','I loved you all comments but I believe just like \"it takes a village to raise a child\" I believe those same villagers have to be there to help one another. Kathy, I feel you on lowered expectations..BUT, if we lower them all how will people be held accountable for behavior they are SUPPOSE to be exhibiting?? I have a story. I had a saved coworker and we both got different jobs but kept in touch occasionally! Her father died tragically, he\'s in the tree business and a tree fell on him. As soon as I found out I called and made offer...\"Regina, whatever you need\"..but I knew some things so I cooked and took food and later she called and said, \"I need you to come stay with the girls and I need to get away I\'m having a bad day\" I went immediately...she has 4 FOUR kids but that\'s what she needed. We have to be that committee of 1, keep our word, and do what our Mother\'s taught us..everybody wasn\'t taught well. Our reward is in heaven!!!!!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I loved you all comments but I believe just like “it takes a village to raise a child” I believe those same villagers have to be there to help one another. Kathy, I feel you on lowered expectations..BUT, if we lower them all how will people be held accountable for behavior they are SUPPOSE to be exhibiting?? I have a story. I had a saved coworker and we both got different jobs but kept in touch occasionally! Her father died tragically, he’s in the tree business and a tree fell on him. As soon as I found out I called and made offer…”Regina, whatever you need”..but I knew some things so I cooked and took food and later she called and said, “I need you to come stay with the girls and I need to get away I’m having a bad day” I went immediately…she has 4 FOUR kids but that’s what she needed. We have to be that committee of 1, keep our word, and do what our Mother’s taught us..everybody wasn’t taught well. Our reward is in heaven!!!!!
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]]> By: Kathy http://kleverkathy.com/2009/09/10/if-you-need-anything-day-or-night-just-let-me-know/comment-page-1/#comment-3621 Kathy Mon, 14 Sep 2009 20:46:41 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1068#comment-3621 Leah, I 100% agree, if you are not a man or woman of your word, who are you? I have been told my expectations of people are too high so, trust and believe, I have lowered them. The thing is, our expectations are based on how and what we do for people. I truly believe, there is no such thing as unconditional love and there are alot of fair-weathered friends out there. They will do for you if and only if, it fits into their day and into their schedule and does not put them out in any way. Kourtney, I am doing exactly what you said, learning how to depend on me and Jesus and that is all! Period!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3621','Kathy'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3621','Kathy','Leah, I 100% agree, if you are not a man or woman of your word, who are you? \r\n\r\nI have been told my expectations of people are too high so, trust and believe, I have lowered them. The thing is, our expectations are based on how and what we do for people. I truly believe, there is no such thing as unconditional love and there are alot of fair-weathered friends out there. They will do for you if and only if, it fits into their day and into their schedule and does not put them out in any way. \r\n\r\nKourtney, I am doing exactly what you said, learning how to depend on me and Jesus and that is all! Period!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Leah, I 100% agree, if you are not a man or woman of your word, who are you?

I have been told my expectations of people are too high so, trust and believe, I have lowered them. The thing is, our expectations are based on how and what we do for people. I truly believe, there is no such thing as unconditional love and there are alot of fair-weathered friends out there. They will do for you if and only if, it fits into their day and into their schedule and does not put them out in any way.

Kourtney, I am doing exactly what you said, learning how to depend on me and Jesus and that is all! Period!

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]]> By: Leah http://kleverkathy.com/2009/09/10/if-you-need-anything-day-or-night-just-let-me-know/comment-page-1/#comment-3601 Leah Sun, 13 Sep 2009 17:40:43 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1068#comment-3601 Kourtney, very, very well said.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3601','Leah'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3601','Leah','Kourtney,\r\n very, very well said.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Kourtney,
very, very well said.
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]]> By: Kourtney http://kleverkathy.com/2009/09/10/if-you-need-anything-day-or-night-just-let-me-know/comment-page-1/#comment-3591 Kourtney Sun, 13 Sep 2009 01:22:03 +0000 http://kleverkathy.com/?p=1068#comment-3591 I believe that a person should always be prepared to have the mindset that they can only depend on themseives, that way, if people dont come through for them, it will not dissapoint so much. However, I do feel like you should still be there for a person if you tell them you will be. If you are there for peoplle in their time of need, eventually good friends and people will come into your life and be there for you. What goes around comes around.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3591','Kourtney'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3591','Kourtney','I believe that a person should always be prepared to have the mindset that they can only depend on themseives, that way, if people dont come through for them, it will not dissapoint so much. However, I do feel like you should still be there for a person if you tell them you will be. If you are there for peoplle in their time of need, eventually good friends and people will come into your life and be there for you. What goes around comes around.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I believe that a person should always be prepared to have the mindset that they can only depend on themseives, that way, if people dont come through for them, it will not dissapoint so much. However, I do feel like you should still be there for a person if you tell them you will be. If you are there for peoplle in their time of need, eventually good friends and people will come into your life and be there for you. What goes around comes around.
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